Temple Grandin, that is. When many autistic people disclose that they are autistic, a common question they receive is, "Have you heard of Temple Grandin?" If you don't know who Temple Grandin is, she is an American animal science professor, public speaker, & author who is widely thought of as the "face" of autism. So, when many people think of autism or autistic people, they think of her. This is why many autistic people are asked if they have heard of her when they first disclose that they are autistic. When I was asked this question, I had not heard of her, probably because this was towards the beginning of my autistic journey of self-discovery. All of the literature I was choosing to read were written by women in their thirties & forties. Women who were much closer in age to me & therefore, their life experiences were very relatable to mine. Temple is in her seventies, so I know her life experiences are drastically different from mine growing up. However, as time went on, I have learned more & more about her & now I can tell you that there is so much about her that just doesn't sit right with me. Many other autistic people look up to her & call her a "hero" or an "inspiration," & this may surprise you, but Temple Grandin most certainly isn't a hero of mine. Before I tell you why that is, I would like to tell you about the positive things Temple Grandin has done for the autistic community.
Why Temple Grandin Isn't My Hero:
While, yes, Temple Grandin, one of the first openly autistic people, has done many great things for the autistic community, she will most certainly NOT be my hero until she changes her ableist views about autistic people.
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I have to begin this post by saying that I am so lucky, being someone who has felt so loved & so supported, particularly by my family & close friends, throughout the entirety of my autism diagnosis journey & beyond. I know that many, many people who receive diagnoses as adults, or even as children, are not as lucky as I am & are forced to find their footing in this neurotypical world on their own. Going off of that, a couple of days ago, my best friend texted me an article about the rise of neurodiversity at work. Interestingly, several weeks before, my cousin had emailed me a different article on the same topic, that was included in her work's most recent newsletter. Both articles were very similar, making very similar points about employers being more accepting of autistic & neurodiverse employees now, more than ever. The articles even made statements regarding how in certain aspects, neurodiverse employees add more value to a company than neurotypical employees do. However, when I read articles like these, what I'm seeing is that while we're definitely in a much better place now than we were before, significant changes still need to be made in the workplace & beyond. I had an interesting conversation via text with my best friend I'd like to share with you & that's what today's topic is about. Let's Step Away From The Technology, Mathematical, & Science Industries For A Moment: When you think autism, you generally think Dr. Sheldon Cooper in The Big Bang Theory or Dr. Shaun Murphy in The Good Doctor. I mean, this autistic stereotype is clearly illustrated within their characters, after all. Both articles that were sent to me mentioned this stereotype. My view on this is that articles written about this add to our already existent stereotype, rather than combatting it, which is what we really need. For example, the article my cousin sent me stated that, "Employers have begun to realize that individuals with autism are assets to the company, especially in the engineering and technology industry, where skills such as attention to detail, extended focusing, and mathematical concepts are in demand." On the other hand, the article that my best friend sent me mentioned that some industries, like tech & finance are moving faster than others when in comes to neuroinclusion. While I think that's great, what I'm more interested in are the other industries. Personally, I am someone who would not thrive in any of the stereotypical autistic industries. While I thrived in algebra & statistics while I was in school, I am not a technical- or a mathematical-oriented person. To be totally honest, I inputted numbers into formulas to get the answers because my teacher or professor told me to, but I never understood why I was doing that. And I was never required to remember the formulas I learned because having notecards for tests was an accommodation I had in both high school & college. Autistic people can also be extremely creative, be talented writers, & be great with animals. I can tell you that this is where my personal talents lie. Several industries autistic people tend to thrive in are journalism, animal science, pet grooming, animal care, filmmaking, videography, animation, photography, & graphic design. In elementary school & middle school, I spent my free time writing poetry. In high school & college, graphic design was my hobby. Even though I didn't write poetry as often when I was older, I often still used it to express my feelings. We don't hear about the link between these particular industries & autism often... or at all. What I'm interested in is how THESE industries & other industries outside of the technology, mathematical, & science fields are embracing autistic people & becoming more inclusive. Where These Autistic Stereotypes Came From:
I believe that these autistic stereotypes were created because there are so many undiagnosed autistic females. The technology, mathematical, & science industries are all male-dominated fields. So, of course if undiagnosed autistic females work in other fields, people are unaware of autism's presence outside of the tech bubble! A great illustration of this occurred shortly after I had a conversation with my physician about the fact that I am likely autistic. In my quest to learn more about autism & about myself, I purchased the book, I Think I Might Be Autistic: A Guide to Autism Spectrum Disorder Diagnosis and Self-Discovery for Adults. When I finished reading it, I gave it to my dad to read. After my dad read the autistic traits section of that book, he told me he knows many people who are like the type of person Cynthia Kim is describing. My dad was an engineer for over twenty-five years, so I'm sure that many of his former colleagues are autistic. Engineering is one of the fields that fits that autistic stereotype. Also, after everything I have learned about autism over the past year, I believe that my dad is autistic himself. Where This Leads Us: While it's great that more & more organizations are willing to talk about & accept autism & neurodiversity, there clearly is significant work that still needs to be done. It is time for all industries to be more inclusive & welcoming; but I am most interested in what the industries outside of the technology, mathematical, & science fields are doing to achieve this. Is Autism Really More Common In Males?: Statistically, boys are four times more likely to be autistic than girls, but because we know so much more about autism now than ever before, we are now questioning if it is actually more common in boys or if it is just more commonly diagnosed in boys. Since it was historically believed that autism was more prevalent in boys than in girls, scientists & doctors have focused their autism research on boys. Because of this, the diagnostic criteria for autism is modeled around male behavior. What we didn't know until very recently is that autism can look very differently in girls. Since autistic girls often have different traits that do not match the diagnostic criteria for autism, traits are easier to miss & are mistaken for other things, like shyness & social anxiety, which are much more socially acceptable in girls than in boys. Girls are also more likely to mask their autistic traits & may mimic appropriate social behaviors by copying behaviors that they see in everyday life & on tv in order to fit in. For example, many girls & women force themselves to maintain eye contact by looking in between someone's eyes rather than into them if eye contact makes them uncomfortable. (I do this until a certain level of comfort with a person is reached, which is when eye contact becomes comfortable & natural for me.) Masking is something that is much less common for boys & men to do. Girls are also often diagnosed with depression &/or anxiety, conditions that frequently coincide with autism, rather than with autism spectrum disorder itself. Because scientists & doctors just began learning about how autism presents itself differently in females within the past decade, many women in their twenties & older have just now been receiving the autism diagnoses that they deserve. Many of these late-diagnosed autistic women never presented stereotypical male autistic traits. These women tended to be evaluated for & diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder after having significant problems with things in their adult lives such as treatment-resistant mental health issues, employment, friendships, romantic relationships & more (all things I struggle with). Other women were diagnosed after their child(ren) was/were diagnosed & they recognized some of the same traits in themselves. I truly believe that the reason I was not diagnosed during childhood is because of my gender. What Does Autism Look Like In Females?:
Social Deficits
Pretend Play One of the most common traits of both male & female autism is not knowing how to participate in pretend play. However, it is more likely that this struggle will be noticed in boys because girls tend to be taught from a very young age to be little caretakers, taking care of a baby doll or a stuffed animal. Because boys tend to be not taught this, struggling with pretend play is much more obvious in males. However, I only knew how to play with baby dolls & stuffed animals. When my little cousin asked me to use her plastic horses & farm animals to engage in pretend play with her, that was a struggle for me. I would often ask my little three-year-old cousin what to say or do. My aunt bringing out a craft project for me to help my cousin with brought great relief! Special Interests One of the most common symptoms of both male & female autism is having a special interest. However, male special interests tend to be very specialized & technical, where female special interests tend to be more "normal." For females, the level of intensity of the interest is what is abnormal. Because of this, it can be harder to notice the difference between a "normal" interest & a special interest. Common special interests in females are:
Wheels Many autistic children have a fascination with spinning wheels that are on a toy truck or train, for example. However, because toy vehicles tend to be boy-specific toys & I was a very feminine girl, I didn't own any toys that had wheels other than a child-sized stroller I used to push my baby dolls & stuffed animals around in the neighborhood. Miscellaneous
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